A quick bitch
I realize that I really only blog under two circumstances: one, when I have gone away from my daily routines and therefore have a different point of view on it, and two, when I need to bitch about something that irks me. This post is of the latter variety.
I'm irked most recently by the comments I'm getting on a reading-related web site I belong to. The idea of this site, ostensibly, is to rate and review books you have read and share these with others in the spirit of sharing books and ideas, a conversation of sorts. By way of one's review, you state your opinion of an individual book. I haven't updated my list in a long time, so finally today I did and I added the 7th Harry Potter book because I thought it was a satisfying end to the saga.
I'm an unabashed HP fan and have been from the beginning and that's no secret to this blog. And I also know that there are plenty of people who don't like the books, or are turned off by the hype and attention. You know what they say: you can't please all the people all the time. Show me a book that's won the Pulitzer or the Nobel and there will be a group of people who will tell you why the book didn't deserve that prize and was a waste of their time. These are opinions.
So I find it a little bit irritating, like I do when I'm at the movies and a bunch of teenagers loudly begin acting out in a crowd to draw attention to themselves, that as many as four people so far felt the need to go out of their way and comment on the fact that I like Harry Potter books by posting me how much they don't like them, and what a waste of time they clearly are, and how only sheep would ever read them (I'm paraphrasing :). What would be more to the point, and useful and interesting, is to tell me what books they DO like, and why. Trashing something I love just makes me think: why should I bother to look at your book list when we clearly have opposing tastes?
End of bitch session.
6 Comments:
So I think this is connected to the snob post below.
So I was just reading those comments on that site. Are those folks your "friends" or are they random people?
Yes, you are quite right, Steph.
Those people are mostly just random acquantances, but I do know one fellow from my old writing community.
Just thank them for giving you a different point of view, and go on.
And feel grateful for sharing your tastes with so many people ;)
Truskha, dear, as soon as I wrote this blog post, the irritation was gone. That's the joy of expression for me. If I can write about a thing, I can let it go!
I personally struggle with the on-line medium for discussions. For some reason, I'm usually fine with someone disagreeing with me face-to-face, but on my blog, or that site, or other sites that we use, I can feel picked on quite easily, especially when a number of people don't agree with what I write.
You know, Steph, that's a good point. There's a hit and run quality to comments and posting that often leaves me feeling defensive, where I might otherwise not.
J
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